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« Reply #90 on: February 06, 2011, 08:50:25 PM »

I just got annoyed as it was heavilly implied in some posts that we should refrain from attacking Christians for homophobic beliefs, because that would make us intolerant hypocrites, which is ridiculous. You cannot attack the lifestyles of others and then try to deny the right to criticise the validity of your beliefs. That's the hypocrisy.

Call someone a faggot in a forum and nobody blinks (which has happened quite a few times on this 'good natured' forum) Disrespect a religion and you're apparently a monster.

I don't really care if you attack Christians or not. I'm not that easily offended. But the fact is, if you refuse to tolerate other peoples beliefs, then you are by definition intolerant.

Also, nobody here is insulting homosexuals. I am a Christian, but I am not a homophobe. I couldn't care less if your gay. Just because someone disagrees with you does not make them a homophobe.

It's not my intention to offend for the sake of it,  but refusing to tolerate bigoted beliefs does not put you on the same level as the bigot. That's absurd. Not all beliefs are equal. Many deserve scorn, and I completely reject that belief in a God somehow prevents your views from being challenged.

Incidentally, I doubt you're even debating here from an impartial point of view, and more from defending your own beliefs. If we were criticising Islam here, I seriously doubt you'd as vigourously police our comments, despite them applying equally.

and to add to this im also christian so there.

I would also argue that you cannot be a (mainstream at least) Christian and not have a negative view of homosexuality. It's a fundamental part of the religion. Yes, people can self identify as gay and a Christian, but you're picking and choosing which parts you believe in when you do that.

My point is that not all Christians (or Jews, or Muslims) are homophobic, true. But if so, then I wouldn't consider them true to their religion, and when looking at the global consensus of believers, then neither would the rest of their religion either.  The vast majority of mainstream Christians worldwide are demonstrably homophobic and would refute your identification as a Chrsitian unless you were celibate, and even then most would still shun you. I know a large number of gay people (friends, sister, co-workers) and a large number of Christians (family background, hometown) and pretty much all agree with my assesment here.

Your own personal beliefs do not change those of the vast majority of religious folk. The vast majority will hate you for your sexuality, and you can't possibly deny that. Your opinions are fringe veiws at best within your religions.

Regardless, i'm not here to flame or troll, but make a point, and if people are upset by that, that isn't my intention so i'll stop contributing to this topic, as i've pretty much said my piece anyway.

But seriously... you can't create a topic on homosexuality and then exclude religion from the debate like it has no impact on the topic, or claim your fringe views on the subject as anyway a mainstream representation of the billion+ believers. You may have no issue with homosexuality, the vast majority worldwide demonstrably do, and it's religion's influence and lobbying which is the only remaining reason why we still do not have equal rights for homosexuals in society.
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« Reply #91 on: February 06, 2011, 09:22:43 PM »

I would also argue that you cannot be a Christian and not have a negative view of homosexuality. It's a fundamental part of the religion. Yes, people can self identify as gay and a Christian, but you're picking and choosing which parts you believe in when you do that.

My point is that not all Christians (or Jews, or Muslims) are homophobic, true. But if so, then I wouldn't consider them true to their religion, and when looking at the global consensus of believers, then neither would the rest of their religion either.  The vast majority of mainstream Christians worldwide are demonstrably homophobic and would refute your identification as a Chrsitian unless you were celibate, and even then most would still shun you. I know a large number of gay people (friends, sister, co-workers) and a large number of Christians (family background, hometown) and pretty much all agree with my assesment here.

Your own personal beliefs do not change those of the vast majority of religious folk. The vast majority will hate you for your sexuality, and you can't possibly deny that. Your opinions are fringe veiws at best within your religions.

Regardless, i'm not here to flame or troll, but make a point, and if people are upset by that, that isn't my intention so i'll stop contributing to this topic, as i've pretty much said my piece anyway.

Like I said, I'm not that easily offended, so don't worry about that. I think you misunderstand the basic view of Christians regarding homosexuality. I'm not sure about the ones you know, but most Christians do not hate gay people. We don't think homosexuality is right, but if we hated anyone who did something wrong, we would hate everyone (including ourselves). I don't think any less of a person because they are gay. I have personally done things worse than being gay, so to judge someone for it would be a little hypocritical of me. I guess what I'm saying is that you can disagree with homosexuality without being a homophobe.

Of course, there are people who call themselves Christians (really they are anything but) who do hate homosexuals and rail against them as if they were satan himself. The Westboro people are a good example. Every group has its crazies, but they are never representative of the group.
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« Reply #92 on: February 06, 2011, 09:35:15 PM »

I come from a mainstream Catholic background. I worked as an altar boy when young. I have read the bible from cover to cover and met a huge number of varied Christians in my life, including two gay Anglican vicars (both nice guys) I know my topic.

The fact that Christians may (patronisingly IMO) 'hate the sin, but love the sinner' is neither here nor there. It is clearly stated in Biblical doctrine that judges the gay lifestyle immoral. Maybe it's my liberal use of hate that's confusing, as I don't mean teeth gnashing, wailing hatred, but casual disparaging judgement that represents the majority. Either way, even violent hatred is the norm in some mainstream Christian communites, especially in Africa. Uganda's Christian community is even lobbying to instate the death penalty for homosexuality, and is being openly backed by mainstream bishops. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uganda_Anti-Homosexuality_Bill

Christianity is an officially homophobic religion. That is an undeniable fact. Arguing over how homophobic it is misses the point. When the sin and the sinner are inseperable, as your sexuality indeed is, then you logically must hate both. Also when it is the religious lobby's influence that prevents gays from serving in the military, adopting and marrying, then I believe it is a blight on society, regardless of the level of hate. Any is too much.

I'm sure if I told you my stance on religious followers was 'love the idiot, hate the idiot's belief', then you'd find it just as offensive as I do the 'love the sinner' bit you think is acceptable.

If you believe it is wrong, then I believe you are wrong for believeing so, and defend my right to state so and not be classed in the same category of discrimination for doing so. I don't say you shouldn't be allowed to serve your country, or marry, or adopt children. I wouldn't deny you a single right. Where do you stand on those issues regarding gays?

Anyway, i've made a counter topic for people who wish to discuss the issue further, so as not to derail this one (despite insistently believing religion is central to any debate on homosexuality) I won't contribute to I don't think, but believe it's healthy to have somewhere for people to discuss pro and against.
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« Reply #93 on: February 10, 2011, 11:26:33 PM »

Well guess what not all christians are homophobics.

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« Reply #94 on: February 11, 2011, 12:13:13 AM »

Homosexuality rules.
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« Reply #95 on: February 11, 2011, 09:24:35 AM »

Homosexuality rules.

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« Reply #96 on: February 11, 2011, 09:55:02 AM »

Yea, baby!

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« Reply #97 on: February 14, 2011, 05:48:09 AM »

*Does the "fork in the garbage disposal" dance.*

I like rainbows. I'm taking them back. Greedy gay folks. You should be ashamed. 
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« Reply #98 on: February 14, 2011, 08:55:33 AM »

*Does the "fork in the garbage disposal" dance.*

I like rainbows. I'm taking them back. Greedy gay folks. You should be ashamed. 

Can I join your worthy cause?  Rainbows should belong to everyone!  All the way across the sky
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« Reply #99 on: February 14, 2011, 09:57:18 AM »

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« Reply #100 on: February 14, 2011, 02:11:42 PM »

Can I join your worthy cause?  Rainbows should belong to everyone!  All the way across the sky

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« Reply #101 on: February 19, 2011, 02:18:18 PM »

It's hard for me to see why people have problems with it.

I understand what you mean. Homophobes are either extremely ignorant or just plain intolerant.
I think that this is caused by people reflecting their parents or elders views. Also, people are afraid of difference. And I'm also going to go into religion here, my family is Christian, but to be honest I have not spent a day in church or read a page of the bible in my life. And I don't know why the bible would say that homosexuality is bad, I thought that all you had to do to please your god or holy icon was to have good intentions and be kind to others (not just that, but you get what I'm saying)?
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« Reply #102 on: February 19, 2011, 05:23:05 PM »

*Does the "fork in the garbage disposal" dance.*

I like rainbows. I'm taking them back. Greedy gay folks. You should be ashamed. 

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« Reply #103 on: February 19, 2011, 08:59:29 PM »

I understand what you mean. Homophobes are either extremely ignorant or just plain intolerant.
I think that this is caused by people reflecting their parents or elders views. Also, people are afraid of difference. And I'm also going to go into religion here, my family is Christian, but to be honest I have not spent a day in church or read a page of the bible in my life. And I don't know why the bible would say that homosexuality is bad, I thought that all you had to do to please your god or holy icon was to have good intentions and be kind to others (not just that, but you get what I'm saying)?

The reason you think that is probably because you have never read the Bible. If you would read it you would see that is not what it teaches.
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« Reply #104 on: February 19, 2011, 11:56:08 PM »

People don't really like to admit it, but if the bible was a person he'd probably be a total dick.
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